Girl dating older guy
They’ve been around the block: sexually, financially, career-wise, and in love. They carry themselves with a cocksure attitude that you find appealing.
If you’ve dated younger guys that were wimpy and lacked confidence, it’s understandable you’d consider dating an older man.
If you’ve already had kids in your past relationship or don’t want any in the future, dating an older man is a good path for you, because it’s less likely that he’s interested in having (more) kids. While it depends on the person, you may find that an older man prefers his routines and may not be as keen to go out.
He may even have grown children, which may be easier to deal with if you get serious and end up living together or married (you’re not the wicked stepmother to small children). But these are a few things to be aware of if you consider dating an older man. But you’ve both got to be able to compromise in order to make a relationship work. If it’s important to you to have an active social life, dating an older man may not be for you. You likely want a serious relationship too, but you know you can’t rush it. Speeding into becoming an established couple never works.
Dating an older man may surprise you: he may be a better listener than anyone younger that you’ve been with.
He knows who he is and what he wants, and he isn’t shy about communicating that.
It subtly communicates to you that he can take care of you, and that life with him would be fun!
While most of the above benefits of dating an older man fall under the “he’s just more mature” category, it’s worth pointing out additional perks of dating a mature man. He’s likely been in at least one long-term relationship, so he knows how to give to his partner and compromise when necessary.
These are all status indicators, and they’re part of the attraction factor.
It’s completely natural for you to be drawn to a man because of his status.